For most of us, it may have been out of curiosity in the beginning, and we soon became addicted. For others, the motivation to join the game may stem from experience with other online gaming platforms, giving way to activities that center on an in-world role play environment. Whatever the case, the majority of users who use the service sign on with a certain degree of anonymity, and while some may choose to mimic their real life personae, most residents seem to create an avatar that is far-removed from who they are in the real world. It goes without saying that everyone in Second Life is entitled to personal privacy; in fact, Linden Labs has made special provisions to protect that privacy. Those provisions are what we all know as the Terms of Service, or TOS, for short.
Of course, no one here can see who you really are...
or can they? Well, that depends on several things.
Our avatars are as private as we care to make them. Some people leave everything blank. While this can lead to suspicion by others, especially in an older avatar, it does present the least amount of information about the person's real life. At the other end of the spectrum is the person who displays a real-life photograph in their profile, and who mentions publicly where they live, and what they do. Personally, I don't think sharing RL information is a good idea here, as it truly has nothing to do with Second Life. The one possible exception to this might be the person who comes to SL with the hopes of 'hooking up' with someone that they can meet in the real world. Again, this isn't a good idea. I have personally known one SL fashion model who was murdered by her SL lover in RL. Yeah, it happens.
It's not only about stalkers though. Personal security in Second Life also means that residents have the right to protection from data mining, and unauthorized use of their personal IP, or Internet Protocol, a term which I am sure we are all familiar with. While our individual IPs may not always lead directly to our RL home locations, they can be used to narrow down the user's location to a specific city, or even a locale. For the purposes of this discussion, however, unauthorized IP tracking can be used for other reasons within Second Life, and those reasons are very specific direct violations of the LL TOS.
'How can I protect my IP from these unscrupulous users?,'
you ask. The first thing you need to know is exactly how these users can collect your data. Here are a few of the methods often used:
1) Private voice chat
2) Visitor trackers that give out an URL to an online survey. Avoid clicking on these.
3) Streaming media. DJs in SL often use an API-based program that, as Admin on that outside web page, they have the ability to view all the IPs that are plugged in to that media. If you're the only one there in the sim besides the DJ, that kinda narrows down which IP is yours.
4) Illegal packet-sniffing programs such as Red Zone and Phantom Zone are designed specifically to harvest user IPs, supposedly to 'control griefers.' Regardless of any rationalization, these programs are illegal, yet are still widely used by certain paranoid RP groups who fear infiltration.
5) Any database-enabled object or any web-enabled object
6) Any activity that uses an external API (aka 'application programming interface'; read Meg's excellent summation of APIs in the previous post here). Basically, these APIs are much like your common web forum in that they require you to create a log-in identity. This automatically registers the users IP at that site. As any of you who was ever a forum administrator/owner or moderator knows, you are most definitely able to view every user's IP and create a database. Incidentally, these IPs are usually associated with an E-mail address, which is also considered to be private personal information. Collection of this information is known as data mining.
Now, while having an API is not in itself a direct violation of LL TOS; using it for data mining most definitely is. It might work this way: Say for example that you have purchased an object that uses an API to access the web. The owner and any chosen administrator will have access to your IP. That is a given. Do they really know who you are from this information? Probably not, unless you provided a really obvious E-mail address to register with. OK, now let's say those same people are administrators at an in-world sim that coincidentally uses that same API to access said object, and those people also secretly run Red Zone or something like it. Now they are collecting a parallel database of IPs within Second Life, which happens to be illegal. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out that all they have to do is compare those lists, and they can see which avatar is associated with which IP and/or E-mail address. WAY against TOS, shame on you. Actually, shame on ME for falling for it, when I knew the possibilities to begin with.
What can they actually do with the information? Well, they can ban you, for any reason. They can ban your alts, should you decide to return under another identity. If it's an API-controlled object of some sort, they can even ban you from using it. This means that even though you PAID for it, it may no longer work if you happen to fall out of favor with them for, let's say, having the 'wrong' friends. In fact, these systems will only work as long as the owners maintain their APIs on the web and have them available for use. Once they grow tired of SL or disgruntled (or even leave SL for health reasons), the API may disappear altogether, and there you are with an expensive object that just doesn't do what you paid to have it do. And there won't be much you can do about it.
Now, I am not at all suggesting that you stop all activities in Second Life, but there are several common-sense approaches you can use to protect yourself. I don't use Voice, I don't log on to the DJ streams, and I don't visit locations in-world where the use of Red Zone and similar programs are known to be in use, even if sporadically. And I DON'T buy anything that relies on the use of an external API that gives the seller unreasonable control over the use of that product.
Don't listen to the shills. They have EVERYTHING to lose, and they will lie and try to tell you that NO, that's not what an API is. I know; I have seen it already. I suggest you do your own research. All the information is out there. Don't be stupid and just accept the lies. If you go ahead and do that anyway, I don't want you to come crying to me later that "Jamie, you were right all along; I should have listened to you in the first place." We are all adults here, for the most part, and are all capable of making sound, educated decisions. Don't be led to the slaughter by a wolf in sheep's clothing. Instead, take the time to educate yourself, and pass it along.
YMMV
~Jamie~